Some days the little things get to me. For example, the cat chewed through the cord to my DSL line and now I have to go get another one. We are out of cat food and one of our cats has a medical condition requiring special cat food and no one has time to go get it. Dishes need washing. I have a doctor's appointment, there are bills to be paid, books to be returned, class prep to do. I haven't even scratched the surface of it all. And even as I write it down here, it doesn't seem like such an insurmountable mountatin. In my mind it is Mount Everest. As I look ahead to my week, I see more chores, more tasks, more problems to be solved. How can I possibly do it all. This is where God comes in. I can't do it. But God can. I don't know why it is, but when I take time for God I have enough time to do what I need to do. I talked about turning it over yesterday. This is another one of those days that I need to turn over.
One thing God tells me to do - is to just focus on whatever is in front of me right now. To live in the present moment and not get caught up in what I should've done yesterday and what huge thing awaits me tomorrow. I am just to do what is in front of me today. I know this. I have read this. I have been told this many times. But the truth is I have to relearn this EVERY day. Every day I have to slow down and just do what is in front of me and let the rest take care of itself in time. I wish I could say that I do this perfectly. I don't. Which is why I am writing about it. And why I will probably write about it some more. If someone out there has a way of living, or getting things done that they want to share with me.. PLEASE DO. Or if you are in the same boat... let me know. Misery loves company. Not that I am miserable... just struggling to learn how to live each day for itself!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Turning It Over Again
A while back someone gave me a rock that had the words "Turn it over" painted on one side. When you turned the rock over again you saw the words "Turn it over" on the other side. Hence no matter which way you turn the rock it says, "Turn it over." A really powerful statement actually. No matter what, turn it over - to God. Everything. Every time. We look for answers everywhere. The next diet, the better workout, another class, Oprah, the next door neighbor, Dr. Phil. And on it goes. Who can give us the answer? Turn it over. Its hard to do at times. Turn over a problem to an unseen entity. Sit quietly and really listen for advice. Especially if we are stressed or in a hurry or want an answer RIGHT NOW.
Turn it over. I know that often God is the last place I go when I am trying to solve stuff. Sort of, "I could have had V8!" But instead its, "I could have turned this over to God!" God is so patient. He waits for us to finish running around, bumping into walls. When we are tired enough, we go to Him. Surrender. Today. Every day. But today is enough. Just today. I am turning it over.
Turn it over. I know that often God is the last place I go when I am trying to solve stuff. Sort of, "I could have had V8!" But instead its, "I could have turned this over to God!" God is so patient. He waits for us to finish running around, bumping into walls. When we are tired enough, we go to Him. Surrender. Today. Every day. But today is enough. Just today. I am turning it over.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Learn How to Network more effectively!
While teaching my Entertainment Business class this week it occurred to me that perhaps there are others out there that could use some advice on networking. Whether you are trying to get into Hollywood or just find a new job, it is important to get out of the house and shake some hands. So I wrote and article for HubPages about Schmoozing (the Hollywood term for networking).
If you want to take a look, click here.
If you want to take a look, click here.
Friday, February 5, 2010
You are not too old for Facebook!
Facebook for Boomers
Since I am teaching a class about mass media this semester, I started thinking about how many people in my generation are still not connected on Facebook. Back in the early dawn of the internet.. oh 10, 15 years ago, I remember being irritated when I couldn't find a website for a company I was interested in. Or when someone I knew didn't have email. It just seemed so prehistoric. Well now, it's that way with Facebook. Everyone needs to be on Facebook. For me. So I decided to write an article for HubPages about it. Take a look! Click here or on the link in the title!
Since I am teaching a class about mass media this semester, I started thinking about how many people in my generation are still not connected on Facebook. Back in the early dawn of the internet.. oh 10, 15 years ago, I remember being irritated when I couldn't find a website for a company I was interested in. Or when someone I knew didn't have email. It just seemed so prehistoric. Well now, it's that way with Facebook. Everyone needs to be on Facebook. For me. So I decided to write an article for HubPages about it. Take a look! Click here or on the link in the title!
A great book for midwinter blues!
I recently wrote an article on HubPages on one of my favorite books In My Father's Vineyard. Sometimes it seems, even here in southern California that Spring will never come and we will forever be slogging through muddy streets and rain soaked parking lots. But Wayne Jacobsen's book helps put all the seasons into perspective as he writes about growing up around vineyards and comparing his life lessons to the wonderful lesson Jesus teaches the apostles the night before his death. A beautiful message of hope and renewal! It might be just the book to curl up with on a rainy evening!
Blogging for fun and profit!! Business2Blogger
As I have been working on developing this blog I have been amazed at the seemingly endless opportunities that exist to help those who want to do a little extra writing for a living. In this new world of social networking, having an opinion can equal making money by talking about the stuff you love, hate, places you have been etc. One interesting opportunity I have come across is the website Business2Blogger.com which helps put together writers and businesses that need someone to write about their stuff. Word of the mouth is king these days on the internet and apparently there are tons of opportunities to share your opinion for cash! The only problem is... finding the companies that need your services. That is what Blogger2Business has done - quite ingeniously I might add! Give it a try for yourself and see what you think!! Let me know too!
Getting back in the flow of things
I had a lovely long winter break from teaching but started back this past week. Now I have stacks of stuff to read, emails to answer, papers to write, classes to plan. And there is this side of me that just wants to lie down and put a rag on my forehead. And another side of me that actually likes all this activity! Balance. Moderation. Not words that I embrace much. But so important. I guess one way to get more balance and moderation in my life is to try to focus only on what is in front of me. Instead of thinking about a million things at a time. Women are known for their ability to multi-task.. and I am the queen of multitasking! But the curse of that ability is that I feel like I am always in a whirlwind. And frankly its exhausting. So I am trying something new.... just for today. I am going to try to do ONE THING AT A TIME. Scary. But for me - I need to do this for my sanity and for my family's sanity. We will see if it works.
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